Thursday, October 02, 2008

Teeth and other tidbits

Things here have been crazy lately, and so I haven't been posting as regularly. I know that must be a bitter disappointment to you all, so I have some random bits of life to share:

1. Dallin lost one of his big front teeth. He has a theory that he learned from Junie B. Jones, I think, that the Tooth Fairy recycles baby teeth. She cleans them off, and puts them into other babies' mouths. So Dallin thinks that Hayden surely is growing in his old tooth somewhere.


2. Which leads me to tidbit #2. Hayden now has two teeth on the bottom, and almost four on top. It's hard to see them, but there they are . . .


3. The other day, Daphne said, "Watch Mommy! Watch me forever, okay, Mom?" What she meant was "Watch me forever," as opposed to looking for a second and then going back to folding laundry, or washing dishes, or picking up clutter, thereby missing the special trick she's showcasing.

4. Our Dishwasher is broken. It has been out of commission for two weeks now. I realize now how much I take those kinds of things for granted. I have been spending lots of time chained to the kitchen sink washing, and washing and washing the dishes, and thinking deep thoughts like, "Shouldn't my fairy godmother have arrived by now . . ."

5. Sean . . . what to say about this one? It's a good thing I love him, because today he woke Hayden up from both of his naps after he'd only been asleep for about half an hour. I was so mad. Then tonight while Arthur had to work late, and I was hosting a baby shower, Dallin & Daphne ran downstairs to inform me that he was flooding the bathroom. Yep. He sure was flooding the bathroom giving all his bath-toys a bubble bath in the sink. I was sooo mad.

(looking very innocent)

6. Dallin has awarded himself a Caldecott Award for a book he is writing entitled, "No, Sean, No!" (pretty similar to the Caldecott-Award- Winning "No, David, No" by David Shannon.)



7. I don't usually get this personal, but I experienced a tender mercy of the Lord today that I wanted to share. So you need the background information to understand why it was meaningful to me. Lately I have been feeling overwhelmed and inadequate. Happens to the best of us, I guess. :) I'll blame it on my dishwasher for now. And my four little blessings might be part of it too. I feel like I'm killing myself trying to keep the dishes clean, and the clothes washed, folded, and put away, and the children nourished and happy and thriving, and safe, food on the table, diapers changed, toys picked up, church stuff, mom's preschool, music lessons, and everything else in between, and I'm just not doing any of it well. Anyway, the last few evenings, I have found myself in tears because I feel like "butter scraped across too much bread." I just feel discouraged. (I need to read Pres. Uchtdorf's talk--it was so great.)

Anyway, to get to the point, today I was practicing some music for the Messiah, and I was singing "He Shall Feed His Flock." (For those who are not familiar with Handel's Messiah, the text is all scriptural.) I was singing along, "He shall feed His flock like a shepherd, and He shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in His bosom," and then I came to this part, "and gently lead those that are with young" the first time I sang this line it didn't really sink in, but the music repeats, "and gently lead those, and gently lead those that are with young." And as I sang that, I realized the Savior was speaking directly to me through this scripture. I felt the spirit witness to me that my Savior is mindful of me and my young children. He is mindful of my efforts, my strengths and my weaknesses, and He will gently lead me. I am thankful for the tender mercies of the Lord, and that he does succor his people according to their need. I am thankful that he was mindful of me and spoke comfort to me through music and his words in my time of need.

12 comments:

Rachelle said...

Thanks for sharing! Love you!

Scott and Amme said...

Sharee, You are so awesome and a great mom. I am so grateful for your example. I know how you feel about too little butter on the toast. Just remember it is okay if you take a break every once in a while. Paper plates were my best friend when our dishwasher died last year!

Reed Family said...

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I sometimes think I'm the only one feeling like "butter scraped over too much bread" and then I talk to family and other loved ones who remind me that the good times are so much better because of the tough times and that, like you said, the Savior succors his people in their times of need. I love you Sharee and your 4 little blessings!

Anonymous said...

sharee, I really want to get a copy of that "no sean no" book! :) Also I think you are an awesome mom and you are such a great example!! if you want I'll come live with you and be a maid!!
love you guys!

Mel

S+S said...

Thanks for sharing your tender mercy. First, I love Handel's Messiah and want to CD for Christmas. I cry at one point or another in the songs because they are so powerful. Second, I miss your singing. I want to hear you sing again! Third, you are awesome! No need to get so discouraged and down, unless it drives you to do better at the things that are most important. (but I have that same tendancy).

Brian, Natalie, Kyrie said...

Sharee, I love you! You are such an amazing example to me. I've felt the same way and know the Savior carries me half the time. Like, Melanie I would also like a copy of "No Sean No!" :) We love you guys!

Trisha said...

You are clearly a great mom, dont forget it. We all feel that ways at time, Elder uchtdorfs talk was inspiring and I think hit home to EVERY mom.

Also, I feel you on the broken dishwasher...the first 4 years we were married we had NO dishwasher, I still feel grateful EVERY TIME I load the dishwasher.

Reed Family said...

Hey! I just finished changing the background on my blog, and I thought I'd check a few blogs and noticed that we have the same background now! How funny...you have good taste!

McEntire Family said...

Sharee, You are incredible and I think with a broken dishwasher and a husband that has been working a million hours a week, and a Sean who does anything he darn well pleases you are amazing! Thanks for posting your feelings because it makes those of us who have those same feelings feel better knowing there are others out there like us!

The Aussie and the Owl said...

Don't worry Sharee - Mikey and I love to do the dishes. When we come we will do them for you everyday. Not because you need our help but because we love you and you are such an incredible sister-in-law! You may not have been blessed with a fairy godmother but the Lord did send you a beautiful family who love you and need you - what a good example you are to each and every one of us.

Martin Family said...

I think that as mothers we all need a reminder that we are doing a good job once in a while. The Lord is very mindful of us and our needs as moms. Keep up the wonderful job!!

Sarah said...

Thanks...I needed that.